First, you show no interest or attention to what I'm saying. Too busy to finish the things on your agenda.
Second, talking to you feels like 对牛弹琴. Feels like you've no idea what I'm referring to. Or rather you do not have the same emotional feeling or understanding to the same matter.
With this, I conclude that you've forgotten how to be a good listener and communicate with people. You forgot the things, the very things that cause me to close up towards you. And I might do that again.